I ever heard of a story.in a university,a proffessor said to his students:i would like to play a game with you, who will cooperate with me?a girl student came to the platform.
now please write the names of twenty people who are the closed with you on the the blackboard.the proffessor said to her.she did as he said.the people she wrote including neighbors,friends and relatives.
please delete one person who is not the most important of them,said the proffess or.therefore she deleted the name of her neighbor.please delet another one among them,said the proffessor.the she did it again and again.at last there are four names to leave on the blackboard.they are parents ,husband and child.
this moment,it is very quiet in the class room.the students stare at the proffessor quietely.obviously ,it seems not to be a game.please delete one among four again ,said the proffessor.the she was so hesitated that she thought for a few minutes.finally,she removed the names of her parents.please detete last one from the husband and child.she was astonished by this.after a while,she picked up the chalk shakily and removed slowly the name of her son.at this moment she teared.
a few minutes ,the proffessor asked her that your parent gave you birth and fostered you,your child was born from you,but you can find another husband in your future and why you chose him.
as we know,with the past of time ,parents will pass away before me,my child will become grow up and independent,then leave me finally.so it is rearlly my husband to be able to accompany with me in my lifetime.said she. in fact ,above it is a psychological test.
dear friends who is the most important person in your lifetime?let's share together.
